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It's now time to move on, for the time being, from fear love hate, but I shall return.
It appears I do not have many ( if any) fans on Orble but I do have some out in the bigger Orb of life and so, for the time being, I think I should continue as I could be helping a few people and some are looking for a better way of life. We can't all have an education like mine, an income and assets like mine and a family like mine, but everyone can try to have aspirations and find out that by trying to change their crcumstances just a little and getting a better opinion of themselves they may be able to contribute to their own salvation if it's salvation they want.
Improving things just a little can lead to long term gains. Staying where you are, or even descending further into the quagmire, through drugs and bad relationships and by treating sex in such a bad way as many do and reaping some of the bad results from that does not lead to happiness.
But, let's look at more positive things and see what is going on in my life for me and Andrew and we certainly have the world at our feet, but we have both studied and worked hard and led decent lifestyles and now we are reaping the benefits and I don't think we have missed much at all.
I'm starting to get really excited as Andrew and I have been doing a lot of talking with respect of our future life together and sorting out our differences and agreeing to compromise. We both want children and have had good role models in life. For those who have not I feel the deepest sympathy.
My excitement is all about the thought of getting engaged and for Andrew this can't happen quickly enough, I am a little more hesitant, but there is something very special about getting an engagement ring, having the party, planning the wedding and planning for a family.
By leading decent lifestyles to date we are now benefitting.
Remember it's not so long ago that I had never had a boyfriend, and nothing will convince me that hopping into bed with whoever is available for however brief a period of time belongs on the 'yellow brick road' to happiness.
Self restraint will be necessary at various periods throughout one's life and the sooner that is learned the better, expecially when there are children to be considered.
So now that all the waiting and planning has been done, there are some very exciting times ahead and I'm thrilled at the thought.
And I'm wondering what other people's thoughts about the Honeymoon are?
Where would you like to go for a Honeymoon and what are your feeling about this.
Andrew has made his feelings well known, he just can't wait, he's getting very excited about his role in all of this, wouldn't you know?
So how do you feel about the Honeymoon, come on, join in the show, let's get some fantasy going here, not everything in life is meant to be serious.
It's been a wonderful day. There was a lunch at my parent's place and my dad insisted that the men do all the work. It was a barbecue and dad was in charge. Well the guys did quite well with the barbie and then they raided the frig and somewhat clumsily put together some salads and fortunately dad had got in a nice cheese cake and some other things for the children so they all muddled through the day with much hilarity all round and the various mums all enjoying themselves and I helped out with the children.
I've just got home and Andrew has gone off to see his mum bearing some flowers and a nice cake, responding to my instructions, men can be just so slack about these things don't you think?
Anyway, we've just done love and hate so now it's fear's turn.
A lot of people fear death, and I guess I do too, but its presence does not surround me at this point of time.
You all know I was afraid of not getting married and having children but since I've met and become attached to Andrew I'm not so fearful of that any more so fear is no longer high on my agenda.
But how about you, what are your worries that lead into fear?
Drugs and teenagers has to be high on many lists as does teenage pregnancy and the taboo of incest. That taboo is there for very good reason, it should not be violated.
But perhaps it's just the little things that worry you, and I guess if I tried very hard I'd find a few for me, too. But it is your turn and I'd like to hear from you.
Fears can hold you back in life. Some people cope well with them but for others they become a nightmare.
So now I'd like to hear from you, that would be helpful to my readers who are still there even tho my interests in these things are declining, so I gather I am still managing to help a few people despite my small attendances.
Too many sluts here I suspect, now let's see what that brings forth. If you have no standards you don't really deserve any better description especially when you pull down other people's standards so readily.
I doubt whether I'll see many of those here anyway. And generally they get what they deserve, which despite deluding themselves is not a lot.
You all did very well with "what do you love?", and so now it's, you guessed it, what do you hate?
I don't just mean "not like very much", I mean, really, HATE.
Not who do you hate? It is What do you hate.
It's hard, isn't it? I can think of lots of things that I really do not like, but HATE? That brings in a whole new dimension and I can just pre-empt it all by thinking very quickly what a lot of you hate, but I won't go down that road, I may just come up, all too quickly, with who I hate and that is not the purpose of this particular post on "feelings"
It would be really good if, this time, you could delve into your feelings a bit and try to work out why you hate it and what feelings this engenders in you.
Now, let's start off with me, shall we?
Now, what do I hate?
Well, not much at all, but I think I'd have to say I hate it when people 'typecast' me because I've done so well at Uni and with my job.
It's because of those things that I seem get into so much trouble with my dad, he will give a standard question to nearly every question I ask him. Something like, well you always were different, not like the others, too intelligent really.
Well, if intelligence were the only requirement for life, I would win all the time, but I have doubts and fears, hopes and dreams just like other people and sometimes I feel very insecure and I doubt whether I'm alone on that one.
But I am not looking to you for answers to my problems I am just wondering what it is that you hate. There are no rules but try to recognize a few of the usual boundaries in your replies.
So now I wait for you to say "what you hate" and how that makes you feel.
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